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All
rise, the honorable court of the 16th Judicial Circuit is now
in session. The Honorable James C. Hallock is now
presiding. He was my true champion long before I
understood what it meant. He always wanted my sisters
and me to be happier and smarter than he ever was.
My dad always made sure that
we had what we needed whether we were leaving for ISU or
taking a nap on the living room couch. Dad happily
supported any basketball camp that we wanted to attend or any
high school team we wanted to cheer on as grade-school
players. He handles our tuition bills so we can have a
degree from ISU. Dad always reminds us that we are going
to be really good teachers and to never give up. As my
mom and I were leaving for the store once, dad said, "Buy
this girl anything she needs." That made me feel so
special and so lucky to have my dad a part of my everyday
life. On pizza nights, Dad always asks us first before
he orders to see what toppings we want. He would even
make a special trip just so we could have Pizza Hut rather
than Nottolini's, his favorite. He quietly sets his
favorites aside so we can enjoy ours and not feel guilty about
choosing Pizza Hut again.
Not only was Dad financially
involved in our lives, but he was always present in the
basketball court. I do not remember a day in St. Joe's
Gym without him. He was at every practice, every game
and even at the hot and crowded Christmas programs. We
would get to practice early so Dad could mop the court because
he was proud of St. Joe's and proud of the Lady Jomen.
He was the best grade school coach because everyone learned
the building blocks for success. His coaching did not
stop as I graduated from 8th grade. He was not my high
school team coach, but he rebounded almost every shot that I
attempted on the driveway. He always recreated game
situations in the living room pretending the television was
the basket and showing me how to get better position under the
boards.
Dad admits he was never a
good student until he went to law school. He always
wanted us to be smarter than he was in school. He would
spend hours sitting across from one of us at the dining room
table doing the flash card ritual. He was so tired from
working all day that he often fell asleep because we were
taking too long to answer. Dad never quit or said,
"I don't have time." Dad never said,
"This is not good enough." He always
responded, "If you did your best, that is all you can do.
I am proud of you!"
Dad does not tell us how to
be successful. We can see that through his dedication
and faith. When he was not elected to the city council
or when he did not get the first judicial position, he did not
quit. Failure only made him work harder and persevere.
He never complained about his opponents or the rules, he kept
doing his best. His best efforts paid off when he was
appointed as an associate judge the 31 day of January 1992.
My younger sister's
basketball season ended with a loss Tuesday, marking the end
of the 13 year Hallock era. I never realized how much my
dad existed in us until I read his email to me Tuesday night.
He wrote, "Well, tonight was my last basketball
game." I now recognize that dad was not just
coaching from the sidelines or sitting on the bleachers of
Chesbrough Field House. He was within us, inspiring us
to succeed.
17 February 1999
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